So I was HALF correct in my assumption about Jon, my "friends" boyfriend. He turned into an ex and about a week later, I realized "Hey, I really kind of like this guy" and we...well...did it. I was so okay with NOT doing it, so much so I held out for over an hour and a half! He really tried hard! But, like men, I too have a sex drive and finally gave in.
Now, while I realize this is incredibly fucked up, he kept assuring me him and Michelle were done. He made it painfully obvious to everyone she was, and I quote "fucking psycho and can't stand to be alone" among other things. I would normally never do this to a friend, please trust that I would NEVER EVER EVER DO THIS TO A FRIEND. But this girl, she made my life and living hell and changed my Brother and I's relationship to something that isn't nearly as close or loving as it used to be. While I did forgive her for that, I definitely felt no loyalties towards her. If I find a guy that I honestly enjoyed spending time with, I was not going to let the fact she was involved ruin that.
Well, here is me with egg on my face. He is now back with Michelle, the whole world knows I did indeed sleep with him, and I have 30 and 40 somethings threatening to kick my ass. I can't be upset because I put myself in this situation but I was pretty upset I let myself get hurt. Normally, the friends with benefits I have had, don't spend a straight 24 hours together, but that's just me.